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  • Apr 10

#BeTheChange

  • Mathilde | dare to be the change

There is a particular kind of exhaustion that feels very modern. You close your laptop, but your mind stays open. You put your phone down, but your mind hovers over it. The result is a low hummmm of stress that follows us everywhere, day and night. The menopausal brain is working harder than it gets credit for. Fluctuating oestrogen affects the way we sleep, process stress, regulate emotion and recover from overstimulations, it can make emotional resilience harder to find. I invite you to try these 3 simple steps.

  • Mar 12

Second Spring

  • Mathilde | dare to be the change

March knows exactly what it’s doing! Bulbs push through frozen, muddy ground. Trees grow their buds once again.

  • Feb 4

The Curve That Changes Everything

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

Smiling comes before sounds and words. A baby’s tiny smile can fill a room with warmth, joy, and more smiles in an instant.

  • Jan 2

Gentle January

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

In nature, January is designed for slower pace and quiet recalibration. So instead of focusing frenetically on new year resolutions (which frankly are often forgotten by the 1st of Feb), perhaps we can step more gently and deliberately into intentions. Join me for a gentler start to the year ...

  • Dec 9, 2025

Permission to Pause

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

We often think of rest as something we earn after everything else is done, or as something only justified when we are unwell. But rest is far more nuanced. Beyond physical and mental rest, there are quieter forms that offer a gentle reset: emotional rest, social rest, sensory rest and creative rest. What kind of rest is calling you?

  • Nov 19, 2025

Forecast: Changeable

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

Every morning I open the blinds and check the sky before I step into the day. Living in Britain means the weather can shift from sunshine to showers in a heartbeat, and peri/menopause can feel much the same. One moment clear skies, the next a sudden heatwave or emotional drizzle. Just as the weather keeps us talking, our inner weather tells its own story. What is your inner weather telling you today?

  • Oct 22, 2025

Making room for Change

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

When I moved to East Sussex, I swore I’d never move again. Packing boxes felt like a full-body workout for muscles, emotions and mind. Yet somewhere between the clutter and the clearing, I realised how much lighter I felt. How might a little more space change the way you feel, think, or move through your days?

  • Sep 19, 2025

Between the Lines

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

As a child, some of my happiest moments were spent in bed, propped up by pillows, a good book in my hands.  I can still remember the joy of holding the book, opening it and turning that first page ... But what else can we find between the lines?

  • Aug 21, 2025

Finding Wisdom in Weeds

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

What if the weeds in your garden were actually healing allies? I learned from my grandmothers that chamomile tea promotes restful sleep, nettle soup is easy to make and helps reduce inflammation, and young dandelion leaves make a delicious nutrient-rich salad... Nature moves in cycles: growth, harvest, rest, renewal. Women's bodies do too.

  • Jul 21, 2025

The Art of Play

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

As we navigate the changes of midlife, the lightness of play can feel like a distant memory. Yet this is precisely when we need it most. In this playful and thought-provoking piece, we explore why play is vital for wellbeing—not just for children but for grown-ups too. Whether it's through laughter, creativity, or simple silliness, play can reconnect us with joy, spontaneity, and deeper connection. This summer, could you welcome a little more play into your life?

  • Jun 6, 2025

Unfolding

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

Summer is on our doorstep, bringing more light and of course, the longest days of the year. Landscapes brighten, colours intensify and temperatures rise (well, we hope so!). Nature stretches, uncurls, opens-up and flourishes … and so can we!

  • May 9, 2025

Circle: Where Your Story Matters

  • Mathilde Barbier | dare to be the change

Circles take many shapes and forms. Some gather early in the morning to set the day, others meet by candlelight. They happen in living rooms, on beaches, in forest clearings, town halls, wherever there’s space to sit and be human for a while...